marry who???

I believe theres alot to be said for
the single ladies out there
who dont care if he puts a ring on it or not...

I've had the yearning for the whole wedding thing...the cake, the flowers, the dress,and the happily ever afters....but i think im destined to be a bridesmaid for life...

I've been to 5 weddings in my whole life and it seems that everyone was getting hitched but me.

i havent completely given up on it,I'm just not that into it anymore..i deff dont want to be the only one of my sisters who isnt married but in my defense some of those that are married arent happy...

will i always be the single girl at weddings???(btw, i caught the bouquet twice!! twice!!)

and to no avail...im still not married.

i know some women today feel like getting married is a waste and would rather settle for right here right now,and all the details can work itself out later.

but when you ask these women if theyre happy the answer is always "yes".

can it be??can you can have a relationship for years and years and still be considered his girlfriend or his "wifey"and still say im happy with that?

i couldnt imagine going years in, kids, cars, co- habitating and still no true commitment....thats why i never married my kids father...i wanted to be happy and he wasnt gonna be the happiness i wanted... i know when to call it quits and marriage is a strong word to some men and maybe he wasnt ready but i was....so now hes left wondering what happened...alone.

dont get it twisted i still wanna get married and i still think about it ....not often, but I do.