trust has never been an issue in my relationship but.....
We go to Ruby tuesdays in times square we're almost finished our appetizers , and he has to go to the restroom, no longer that 2 minutes since hes left his phone starts ringing....not one to answer his phone so i let it continually ring . I sneak a peek at the name(going in the memory bank for later). he comes back looks at his phone and says nothing, being me and all i asked him "who was that"? he says "just a friend"...wtf!!!
'who'? i asked.
he hits me with "you dont know her"...
woooooooooow!!! this fool sits back and continues to eat his big ass burger...
so what do i do you ask????
not wanting to make a scene in the restaurant about some chick i dont know, i just continue my dinner like nothing happened.
BUT, on the inside im mad as hell!!!!!
i just took the advice of a fellow blogger "don't snoop, your gonna find something you dont want if you do".
SO, i didnt probe him anymore but, im left with the feeling that i shouldve dug deeper....i dont want him to think that because i didnt say anything that its ok for him to be "friends" with this chick i dont know and the bigger question is: does she know about me?
the bottom line is I dont like to be played for a fool....i dont know if i should ask him to introduce us, or just trust that hes being faithful? i need some real advice before i smack the mess outta him......
Trust is very important.
ReplyDeleteI think its a good thing to have a little privacy.
I have friends my fiance doesn't know and he has friends I don't know.
Dont trip. Love your man.
should i ask about her or just leave it alone until i know all the details?? thnx. for your input...become a follower!!!
ReplyDeleteYou have every right to ask questions. But if your motives are impure there won't be enough answers in the world to satisfy your appetite.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a follower???
Are u serious?!
*going to check*
I am a follower. What r u talking about??
what r u talking about jellybean???
ReplyDeleteYou said "become a follower" but I am a follower.
ReplyDeletei wasnt talking to you.....
ReplyDeleteI'm sorrry thats my bad, I was signed in under my other name.... I am BlackIzBeautyful.
ReplyDeleteI didn't even realize that.
LOLOLO
If that ever happens again, remember that's me.
okie dokie!!!!!lmao
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